June 28, 2020

Asked to Work Before the Client Replies? What to Do

Updated September 2026: in 2020 I wrote about a week of hard work on an onsite team's task list, only to learn they were still waiting for the client to answer their questionnaire and had asked us to prepare documents in case they were needed. I have rewritten it as a guide to handling requests for work before the client's requirements are known.

For a week I worked hard on every task the onsite team and my manager gave me. I wanted to know the submission date and kept asking my manager to confirm it. Finally, on a call before the weekend, he asked the onsite team. Their answer shocked me: they had only just sent an initial questionnaire to the client contact and were waiting for a reply. In the meantime, they thought the client might need some information and wanted the offshore team to prepare documents before any requirements existed. I asked my manager to tell them I would support the request once the client clarified its needs. Instead, he sent emails with information that did not help.

Why do teams ask for work before the client replies?

To feel prepared. Onsite teams worry about short deadlines once the client does respond, so they start early. The intention is reasonable, but without requirements much of that work is guesswork.

What should you do instead of waiting idle?

  • Prepare reusable material, such as company overviews and standard solution slides.
  • Draft a response structure based on the questionnaire that was sent.
  • List likely questions and where the answers will come from.
  • Avoid detailed, client-specific content that depends on answers not yet received.

How do you raise it with your manager?

Ask for a simple rule: detailed work starts when the client replies, and until then only reusable preparation. Put it in terms of saving effort for when it counts, not refusing work.

Why ask for the submission date early?

Because it tells you how much effort is justified now. My persistence in asking revealed there was no date yet, which changed everything about how the week should have been spent.

What if your manager does not back you?

Write your own short note to the onsite team offering the reusable material now and the detailed work after the client responds. Copy your manager, and keep the tone helpful.

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June 7, 2020

Planning a Surprise Visit Home: Lessons From My Trip

Updated September 2026: in 2020 I wrote about driving home to surprise my family before a long vacation, after my manager approved two days of work from home. I pretended to be busy at work while they worried about my safety during the pandemic. I have rewritten it as a set of lessons on planning a surprise visit.

I was excited to go home for a long vacation. My manager had approved two days of working from home before it, and I had little work left that week. I kept the trip a secret and pretended to my mother and wife that I was busy at work as usual. They were worried about my safety during the pandemic and wanted me home as soon as possible, and they did not yet know that working from home was becoming common in technology jobs. I drove home, and when I arrived they could not believe I was there so early.

Is a surprise visit a good idea?

Usually, yes. It can be a lovely moment. The risk is in the lead-up: if you pretend to be busy or distant, family members may worry, as mine did. Keep the cover story light and do not ignore calls.

How do you plan a surprise without causing worry?

  • Tell one person in the household, so someone can make sure everyone is home.
  • Stay in normal contact, without being short or rude.
  • Check the family's plans, so you do not arrive to an empty house.
  • Consider health rules or concerns, especially when older relatives are at home.

How do you plan a long drive home?

Check the car the day before, including tyres, fluids and spare. Plan stops every two hours or so, avoid driving when tired and share your route with someone you trust. Start early to avoid arriving late at night.

Can you work from home on the way?

Only if the work is light and you can stop safely. Tell your manager where you will be and when you are reachable. Never take calls while driving.

What made the visit special?

Seeing my family's surprise when I walked in. Whatever the plan, that moment is what matters, so keep everything else simple.

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